Parents have forgotten about the importance and time that need to be put into raising kids.There are many reasons why kids need to be #1 on the list: attention, love and care. Sadly, parents don't always see a problem within their child. Some kids these days have trouble paying attention; they have what you call a

• hyperactivity disorder (ADD/ADHD)-children that have problems functioning in settings such as home, school and in relationships with peers.

Parents, with a child that has this disorder has to watch and keep there attention on them. So parents that don't have a child with this disorder should still keep watch, because anything could happen just by the turn of a head. You never know what the future holds; your child could get some kind of disorder without you even knowing. It's very important to stay on top of your kids in school and talk to there teachers on how they are working and things, just keep in touch with how your child is learning.

Keep in mind that you have to be patience with them and find things that they like and use those things to try and get them to do the things that they have to do.

It may be a lot of hard work but know they God blessed you with your child and you should love and help them through the problem. They can get control over it easier if it's diagnosed at a young age.

• Make sure if you see any sign of not being able to focus on something no more than 5 minutes or so, or you see your child can't sit still for a long period of time, Please take him/her to see a doctor and get it checked out. Untreated these effects can go into adulthood.