A woman shows affection to both friends and the one she is planning to be intimate with. There is a lot of teasing that takes place between friends. There is a lot of giggling, hugging and kisses on the cheeks that can be portrayed as both friends and girlfriend. So if you want to become closer than just friends, try toning down the teasing.
By doing this, you can observe the woman you are around. You can observe her body language, which is a major source of knowing, if she wants a relationship. Another way of knowing if she will be a friend or girlfriend is to assist with everyday activities. Show more interest in her life besides just hanging out and doing friend activities. Be more active in assisting chores and anything that you know she does regularly that you know she would appreciate. Do these things regularly and she will build a bond that will be portrayed as a girlfriend.
By being just a nice guy and being there for them, you only want it to be a friendship. It makes it harder to relay the message of wanting to turn into a possible relationship and to be taken seriously. To make them take you seriously, try taking them out to dinner to a nice restaurant where you both can talk and get to know them on a deeper level.
You can also buy them gifts, you don't have to buy them extravagant gifts, just little things that say you care about them on a more emotional level. For example, little teddy bears, chocolate or candy and notes that say that you are thinking of them. The way she reacts will tell you if you are just friends or if she is your girlfriend.
If all else fails, just ask.
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Reading body language requires being perceptive and picking up on the cues being sent your way. |
As a single woman, perfecting the skill of reading male body language is invaluable. |
