Understanding the Body Language of Men

By: Julie Knapp

Do men leave you clueless? Learn the body language of men to gain a better understanding of what's going on inside their heads. Even if men aren't jumping at the chance to open up and put their feelings on the table, interpreting non-verbal language can tell you what they're not saying. 

Swaying and Speaking
When a guy rocks back and forth during your conversation, he may not know it, but he's actually comforting himself. This is a reaction that stems from before birth, as mothers-to-be often rock the babies that are still in the womb. If he's rocking so much that he's coming up on his toes, this means that he is really happy.

Fidgeting in His Chair
Watch out. If he can't sit still and just keeps squirming, he probably wants out. Before you despair, however, know that this also means he's looking for an escape for both of you. He could be looking for an opportunity to sneak you off to the bedroom.

Wide Stance
Men who stand with their legs wide apart are giving off the vibe that they're the alpha male.

Licking Lips
If you're checking out a guy and you see him licking his lips, that's probably a good sign. It's an indication of anticipation when we see something that we want and desire.

Fingers in Hair
This is one piece of body language men and women both use. When he runs his fingers through his hair he's preening-he wants to make a good impression and might be a little nervous about how he looks.

Raising Eyebrows
Eyebrows are sometimes a tricky body language of men. If he raises his eyebrows when he sees you walk into the room, he might be expressing surprise or skepticism. If he raises his brows quickly and smiles, however, odds are good that it's his way of acknowledging that he's attracted to you.

Strokes His Chin
This body language sign is one that means his interpreting language that's coming out of your mouth. Not only is he listening to you, he may really want to reach out and touch you, too.

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