Importance of Communication Skills

The importance of communication skills is often underestimated, despite the fact that communication is one of the most important life skills you can possess. Keeping the communication lines open is often associated with romantic relationships, but it is also important for friendships, families and jobs.

Misunderstandings
A common problem with a lack of communication is misunderstandings. This is especially prominent in this age of digital technology and the Internet. If you're not open with someone verbally, a misconstrued e-mail could result in things getting blown out of proportion. This is due to the inability to determine someone's tone or attitude from an e-mail or an instant message.

Honesty
The key to successful relationships-regardless of the type-is honesty. You may think a white lie here or another there is no big deal, but those small lies could end up becoming much more of a problem as they grow. For example, let's say a member of a romantic relationship is trying to hide his or her shopping addiction. If there is no communication, a small white lie that covers up where the partner was during lunch could lead to where the rent money went. Communication goes hand in hand with honesty. Without both, relationships will be in danger.

Skills

• Confidence: In order to be an effective communicator, be confident in your message. Communication is a two-way street; make sure to get your message out there.
• Open to criticism: This skill is especially important in the workplace. Bosses and superiors will often give you constructive criticism, and in order for that communication to be effective, you must be accepting on your end.
• Empathy: When it comes to disagreements, in all types of relationships, putting yourself in the other person's shoes is a good way to really understand what he or she is saying. 

Practice
Just like any other skill, it takes practice to master communication skills. Practice with a family member or friend. Use role play scenarios to simulate an argument with a significant other.