Red Flags in a Relationship

Nobody wants to believe their relationship is going up in flames, but if you can identify red flags in a relationship, you can save yourself a lot of time and pain. Once you know something's wrong between you and your loved one, you can work to remedy the situation. You don't want to avoid the signs and let things get so bad that the two of you break up on bad terms. If you spot the signs early, you can work on your relationship and hopefully save it from extinction.

Physical abuse is a big red flag that there is an issue with your relationship. Even if your partner has only hit you once, that is cause to seek relationship help. Don't allow something like this to go on: tell friends and family members and suggest counseling.

If your loved one speaks down to you or calls you names, then your relationship some kinks in it. Your loved one should be just that. Loving. If he or she is bringing you down and making you feel bad about yourself, then chances are that you shouldn't be with them anymore. You don't want to sacrifice your self esteem for the sake of a relationship.

If you find yourself lying to your loved one or if you catch them in a lie, it's a chance that things aren't right. A relationship needs to be one that operates on honesty. If you can't tell your loved one the truth, then this is a big sign of trouble in paradise.

Think about how happy you are. If you're happy one day and miserable the next, this is another major red flag. A relationship should be stable: it shouldn't a ping pong match of emotions. You shouldn't feel as if you are winning or losing when it comes to your relationship.

Things aren't on the up and up if you never see or talk to your friends and family members. In fact, this is a sign of a controlling relationship. If your loved one checks up on you all of the time, it's a sign they don't trust you, and if they don't want you with other people, they're isolating you from the world. This isn't healthy, and you should be on the lookout for such behavior. 

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