10 Signs That He's Interested In You

Everyone has been there.  Does he like me?  Why is it so confusing?  These ten tips will help you decipher whether he's potential or not.

1. He calls.  In the age of text/e-mail/facebook/myspace/twitter technology, it seems that no one actually TALKS anymore.  If a guy is truly into you, he's going to pick up the phone every now and then.

2. He respects your interests.  That is, "respects" and not "becomes engrossed in every detail of your life".  It is so important as a healthy twosome to keep your own identity/hobbies/friends/LIFE intact, but a man who cares about you will make an effort to find out what you're all about and join you sometimes.  He's open to trying new things.

3. He doesn't play games.  This is broad, ladies.  Whether he's looking for a friend, a casual date, or something more long-term a quality guy will be honest and upfront about it.  There is nothing wrong with not being ready to settle down, but if it seems more like a game of cat and mouse than a relationship then it's ok to forfeit.

4. He's nice to your family and friends.  Period.

5. He puts his phone away.  Seems obvious, but according to a survey by MSNBC at least 23% of people admit to texting while on a date.  Bottom line: If he can't make you his main priority for 2 hours then imagine how attentive he'll be later on.

6. He doesn't freak out about making future plans.  That doesn't mean bringing up that you want a destination wedding and 3 kids on date 2.  But if he balks at RSVP-ing to a concert with you in 3 weeks this may be a sign of deeper commitment issues.

7. Ah, Facebook.  He doesn't untag photos or delete your walls posts.  If he's trying to keep you a secret in his electronic life, there's most likely a reason.

8. When you meet his friends they know exactly who you are.  A guy is going to talk about a girl he likes with the people closest to him.

9. On that note, he introduces you to his family.  This can be terrifying for everyone involved so if he takes that leap know that you're important to him, and he plans on you sticking around.

10. He listens.  It sounds simple, but it may be the most important.  He knows what's going on in your life, what your favorite things are and when your birthday is.  Bonus:  He found out one of these details without you even having to tell him.