Dating can be confusing; it’s hard to know if that single guy from work is interested in you or if he’s just being polite. Is he really interested in getting to know you better, or is he bored and just passing the time? Singles need a few dating tips on how to tell a friend or acquaintance from someone who wants to get to know you better.

Signs He’s Interested in You When You First Meet

You’re celebrating happy hour with your coworkers, and there’s a cute guy chatting with you at the bar. The following are signs you might get a date with him:

He can’t keep his eyes off you.

Men are visual creatures. When a man sees a woman he finds attractive, he’ll want to look at her again, and again, and again. If the new guy keeps throwing glances at you across the bar, there’s a good chance he’s seen something he likes. Watch where his eyes go. Is he checking out other women, or is his gaze constantly returning to you?

He moves closer to you.

If he makes a conscious effort to sit by you or get closer to you, you can bet you’ve gotten his attention. Leaning closer to talk to you or focusing his attention on just you and your conversation, is also a good sign that he’s interested.

He jokes with you.

Women are attracted to funny men, and men seem to know intuitively that this is one of the more potent weapons they have in their romantic arsenal. If a man jokes with you and only you, you can assume he’s interested in interacting with you more. If he jokes with everyone else in your group, he may just be having a good time being in the spotlight, but a private joke breeds a sense of intimacy, insinuating that he likes sharing a private laugh just with you. Flirtatious jokes or allusions to future contact are especially promising.

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