Dating is a tough process, and you're going to run into a bad date at some point. It's hard to know if you are compatible with another person, and, though you may meet some great people, they may not be what you're looking for. The key to escaping a date that isn't going anywhere is planning ahead and being honest.

You may feel guilty for wanting to escape or leave a date, but you should also remember that time is precious: You don't want to lead anyone on. If you aren't feeling the person or situation, you'll save everyone a lot of time by leaving.

Don't leave right away. Give the date at least 30 minutes before excusing yourself. It always helps if you have plans for after the date, especially if you don't know your date very well. You never know if the date will turn around.

However, if both you and your date seem disinterested or bored by the date, it's more than okay to make the first move to end the date. Though it may be hard to verbalize, you can suggest rescheduling if you think it might be better another time, or you can explain that you think this meeting isn't going anywhere. Take a level tone, and be sure to act apologetic. If you are sure that your date has similar feelings, they may be thankful for your honesty.

It also helps to have an emergency code for friends and family members if you're in the middle of an awkward or boring date. Cell phones were made for escaping boring dates. Have them call 30 minutes into the date so that you have an excuse to leave.

If your date asks to see you again, be blunt with them, but not mean. Explain that you think the two of you are better as friends. It may be hard to say this, but it's better to be up front than to lead your date on.