Have you ever been on a blind date where things just did not go very well? Maybe the guy and/or girl had their cell phone out, texting a bunch of people at the same time while not giving you any kind of attention? Maybe the guy didn't open one single door for the girl or the girl never said thank you for the door being opened? Perhaps communication wasn't necessarily the best while at dinner? Well, here are some tips that can possibly be used for your next blind date, or just date in general, if you do so desire.
One thing that is very important at the beginning of a blind date, regardless of whether or not you have an idea of who the person is before hand, is to always introduce yourself personally and shake hands. Shaking hands may seem a little old fashioned but it is a great ice breaker. If you wish to take it one step further to let your date know you are a fun person, introduce yourself and shake hands and then maybe add a fun little fact about yourself such as your favorite color or one of your hobbies. That then leaves the ball in your date's court. Always break the ice at the very first. It makes for a lot more enjoyable evening with the communication ball already rolling.
Now ladies, you deserve to always have the man open the door for you. If he fails to open the car door for you, stand by it. He will soon get the message. However, if he does open the door for you, be sure to say "thank you." Your date likes to be acknowledged for the things he does for you and when he hears a thank you, he is more than likely going to keep doing it. If he opens the door for you all night, always say thank you. Men really do appreciate it. Now men, always open the door for the ladies. It can be discouraging if she never says thank you but don't stop doing it. Something you could try is if you notice she doesn't say thank you, go ahead and say "you're welcome." She will realize she forgot to thank you and she will remember to next time. And another thing, they get all dressed up just for you and you get to respect that. Make a compliment on the way she looks and ladies, it wouldn't hurt for you to do the same. Giving compliments is a great communication barrier breaker.
When at dinner, keep the conversation light since it is a first date. Always ask questions about the other person and don't be afraid to expound more on any question you get asked back. Also, make sure to not just ask "yes and no" questions that only require a yes or a no answer. If your date gives you that kind of an answer, ask "why?" They will feel like you are actually interested and that you really do want to know. This is especially good if your date is a little shy. You might even turn it into a game. You could take turns asking questions back and forth or you two could see how long you can stay on one topic if you notice the conversation is a little floaty.
Just by following these few tips on communication you are almost guaranteed a second date. These may take some practice but that is okay. Besides, not everything has to be absolutely perfect on the first date.
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