Ahh, the ever feared and much maligned blind date, ripe with nervous awkwardness and low expectations. We’ve all been on one at some point or another. Here’s some tips to help you make the best of an uncomfortable situation.

Low expectations? Try No Expectations
Try not to go into a blind date with any expectations at all. Having low expectations gives you a lot of negativity and makes you look for things that are wrong with a person. That’s not how you want to start a potential relationship. Go in with the mindset that you’re meeting a new friend.

Location, Location, Location
Try to pick a good spot for your date. You want to be in an atmosphere where you can talk comfortably and get to know one another without being told to pipe down. Avoid places like the movies or the ballet where you’re forced to sit in silence. Grabbing a quick lunch, getting a cup of coffee or a stroll in the park are perfect places to chat it up.

Keeping Up Appearances
Since this is a blind date, the other person has never seen you before. It’s important to make a good first impression. You don’t want your date to see you and immediately think you’re a slob. Take a shower, shave and put on nice yet comfortable clothes.

Prepare
If you’re being set up on a blind date, chances are it’s being masterminded by a mutual friend. Ask your friend for some minor details about your date, such as interests, hobbies and occupation. These can come in handy as talking points in case there’s a lull in conversation.

Note Body Language
Your mother had it right when she told you to sit up straight. Body language says a lot about your personality. Slouching in your seat says to the other person that you lack confidence. Try straightening your back, leaning forward slightly and making eye contact often. This shows the other person that you are genuinely interested in what she has to say.

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