
The age-old saying is true: Clothes do make the person. The clothes you wear not only provide a first impression, but they also give clues about your personality. If you do not give your first-date outfit some thought, you could end up starting your date on the wrong foot.
The worst kind of clothing for a date makes you feel uncomfortable and is usually something you wouldn't normally wear. If you're a jeans and t-shirt kind of person, you can still dress up while keeping with your personal style. Just don't buy that short and tight dress because you think you have to wear it; you'll only feel self-conscious. Dates make you nervous enough, and you don't want to add to this stress.
Additionally, you want your clothing to be appropriate to the date. If you are going to play miniature golf, you should reconsider the high heels and short skirt. If you and your date are going to the beach, make sure to pack a swimsuit. You don't want to ruin a date because you aren't prepared for it.
The worst kinds of clothes are not only those that are over-the-top but also those that do not fit properly. Loose clothing is different from clothing that is at least three times too big for you. Make sure to choose clothing that flatters your shape.
Think about the kind of impression you're trying to give. A message T-shirt will give off a different impression from an Oxford-style shirt buttoned all the way up. The key is to find clothing that is representative of not only your personality but also your interests.
Additionally, think about what you want from this date. Are you looking for a fling or are you looking for something more long-term? Your goals may have an impact on your outfit choices.
Shy people may not always be receptive to your flirting, but you can tell if they're responding. |