How to Know It's Just a Booty Call

Are you stuck wondering if your hot hookup has any potential to turn into the real deal? Here's some tips on how to know when that new flame rings, if it's something special or just a booty call.

History Lesson
Consider your history with this person. What do you do when you're together? If all you've ever done with him is inside of a bedroom, chances are it's just a booty call. If he had any interest in sparking a relationship, you would have done some actual couple things, like enjoy trips to the store together, walks or excursions to the movies.

Peak Hours
What time does he come a-calling? If the majority of his calls are coming in after last call, he's probably in it just for the booty. Lots of late night, drunken hookups mean only one thing.

Back Story
Have you ever met any of his friends or family? If he was serious about a relationship he would have definitely started to include you in his life and daily routines. If he starts to bring you into his social circle, you know there's probably more to it. If you ask about meeting his friends and he brushes it off, that's a clear signal of the booty call.

Conversation Topics
What do you talk about when you're together? Someone who is genuinely interested in you will want to know more about you, what you like to do, what goals you set for yourself and other things along those lines. Likewise, he'll reveal insights into who is and what he's all about. 

There's nothing wrong with making or being the occasional booty call. However, you never want to lead someone on into thinking there might be something more to your relationship. Just be honest with your intentions and remember you're dealing with another person who has emotions that should be treated with respect.

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