Little things mean a lot in a relationship, especially in a new one. One of the biggest milestones that you can reach in a new relationship is being introduced to his friends. There is no secret that guys are very egotistical and competitive with their friends, so reaching a point in your romance where your boyfriend has deemed you worthy of meeting the inner circle is huge. Of course, you want to do everything possible to make him happy and to make a good first impression when he introduces you to his friends.

Be careful with your appearance. Dress nicely, but appropriately for the occasion and atmosphere. While you want to look spectacular, wearing a skirt and stilettos to go bowling might come across as being pretentious. Wear clothes that are stylish, without being overly sexy or revealing. You want to look like girlfriend material, not a one-night stand.

Be friendly and approachable. Smiles, handshakes and small talk are all in order to help make this relationship milestone go smoothly. Gauge the situation and try to respond accordingly. If they’re a loud, talkative bunch, jump into the conversation and laugh along with them. When his friends are more reserved and quiet, try engaging each of them in conversation.

Try not to embarrass him. His ego is at stake here, so tread carefully. Now is not the time to share the embarrassing story where he spilled his wine all over himself, while trying to impress you on your first date. Save the affectionate nicknames for later and do not be overly clingy or beg for his attention.

Let them know that you are not competing with them for your boyfriend’s attention. Make them aware that you know their importance in his life by acting interested in them. If they see that you aren’t a threat to their manly bond, they’ll be much more likely to warm up to you.

Above all, be yourself, even if you are nervous and apprehensive. Though meeting his friends for the first time can feel like you are facing a judge and jury, by just being your beautiful self you will make the best impression. Most people can see right through a fake, so relax and just be you.