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Title: How to Tell If Your Husband Is Cheating
By: Teresa Hall

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How to Tell If Your Husband Is Cheating

Have you ever wondered how to tell if your husband is cheating? With the divorce rate sky-high and the infidelity rate even higher, it's a common question for many people. When people are married and cheating, there are usually tip offs in their behavior. If you catch your spouse cheating, you can almost bet one of these signs showed themselves in the weeks or months prior to that day.

Working Late
Often, cheating husbands will try to use work as a cover-up. If your husband is saying he's working late far more often than usual, it could be a sign that something isn't right. If you become suspicious your husband is cheating, try reaching him at his office when he's working late.

Driving Habits
Another giveaway can be his driving habits. Pay attention to the odometer on the car. If the miles are piling up quicker than normal and he doesn't have an explanation, you may have trouble.

Intimacy
Many times, cheating husbands give themselves away through their relationship with you—and it isn't always what you might expect. If your intimate relationship suddenly changes—either less frequent, more frequent or even requests that are out of the normal routine for the two of you—he might be hiding something.

Judgment Calls
Is he always finding fault with you—almost looking for excuses to get angry? This can happen as a way of relieving guilty feelings over a lover. If he can manufacture reasons to be upset with you, he won't feel as bad about cheating on you.

Family Matters
Here's a red flag: has he started removing the child safety seats from the car when he has to go out for business? Is he removing himself from family activities he used to enjoy? Alarm bells should start ringing if he is suddenly avoiding the appearance of being a father.

Paper Trail
A classic sign of a cheating husband can be found on paper—credit card receipts for dinners, hotels and even gifts like jewelry or lingerie you have never received. If the credit card bills are mounting, they could be a sign something is amiss in your marriage.

Innocent Until Proven Guilty
While none of these signs is proof, your husband is cheating on you, if they start to add up, it may mean there's a problem you need to face. Talk to your husband if you can—or start digging a little deeper to find the truth.

 

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http://www.datingclass.com/articles/husband-cheating.shtml

 

http://www.divorcehq.com/articles/cheatingspouse.shtml

 

http://www.womansavers.com/cheating-husbands.asp