How Often Should Married Couples Make Love

How often should married couples make love? Many married people, whether they are newlyweds or have been married for years wonder if they are having enough time together. Considering the fact that sex is an important part of married relationships, it's important to understand how often a couple should be making love.

Averages Of Married Couples Making Love
Although each couple is different, there are several figures that can help you understand whether or not you and your partner are making love enough. According to a 2001 Durex Condom Global Sex Survey, most married couples make love an average of 1.8 times per week.

Another recent study showed a different figure for couples who are between the ages of 25 and 45 years of age. As long as they have been married for three or more years, these couples make love an average of two to three times per week.

Other Factors In Intimacy
Despite these statistics, the number of times a married couple makes love should not be determined by averages. Many factors can go into how often a couple is being intimate per week. One of the biggest factors is children. Studies show that couples with preschoolers have less sex than couples with older children. Couples who have more children reportedly have more sex.

The status of a couple's relationship is another big factor in whether or not a couple has sex. Couples who are on the verge of separating will have less sex. Work-related stress and health issues can also cause the frequency of sex to decline.

Improving Intimacy
Although there should be no "normal" when it comes to sex frequency, it should be part of a healthy relationship. If you feel that your sex life leaves something to be desired, there are many ways you can improve intimacy. Most traditional marriage counselors advise that couples work on emotional issues that may be acting as a barrier to making love. Some also suggest making romantic gestures to help get the old spark back. Flowers, quiet dinners, long walks and massages can help increase a couple's desire to spend time with one another intimately.

However, there are other therapists who recommend that the best advice is to take action instead of talking about it. Scheduling time together and making sex a priority will help increase intimacy and make for a better sex life.

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