The question, popped. The proposal, accepted. The ring, bestowed. Now it’s time to spread the news that you’re about to get married. Sharing your engagement announcement seems like a breeze, but you and your partner need to discuss who to tell and how to tell them.

Who to Tell

After you and your partner have decided to marry, the next step is to tell your friends and family. You can share the news of your wedding in many ways, but you and your partner should take time to decide who should find out first.

Most people choose to inform close family members and friends in person or over the phone. If you have children, they should be some of the first people you tell. Your and your partner’s parents should be told as soon as possible. Tradition dictates that the bride’s family should be told first, but you do not have to follow this rule. What’s most important is getting the parents of both families in touch.

Next, you should tell your grandparents, siblings and other relatives with whom you are in close contact. Finally, close friends should be told.

If you are concerned that someone you love will not approve, for any reason, don’t put off telling them. Contact those family members, one on one if at all possible, and talk to them openly about their concerns.

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