What Is a Proper Gift for an Engagement Party?

By: Vickie Ferguson

What is a proper gift for an engagement party? Since this celebration is more informal than an actual wedding, you have the opportunity to pick a gift with which the lovebirds couple can have some fun.

Engagement gift ideas run the gamut from sentimental and serious to casual and funny gag gifts. There is no right or wrong when choosing what type of gift to give for this type of event; the gift giver is able to relax and really think about the couple being celebrated while she shops for a gift.

Gift giving is not required at engagement parties. That said, most people do choose to arrive at the celebration with at least a small trinket for the couple. If you know both members of the engaged couple, you can feel free to give each a small individual gift, although most people choose to buy for the couple.

If the couple has registered at local stores, use the list as a guide to purchase small items that will compliment the larger items on their registry list. An easy way to create a sense of continuity in your gift-giving is to purchase your engagement party gift and wedding gift at the same time. For instance, if the couple has registered for a cut crystal pitcher and matching glasses, you can give the couple the glasses at the engagement party and save the pitcher for the couple's wedding day.

If the couple has already planned out much of the wedding and knows what they plan to do for their honeymoon, you can give them a gift that ties in with those honeymoon plans. An engaged couple does, after all, get giddy thinking about a time in which they will be officially man and wife.

Gift ideas include baskets of favorite snacks and goodies, specialty gifts for their honeymoon or a keepsake of their engagement party for display in their new home.

Feeling stuck? These ideas always earn rave reviews from engaged couples:

  • A bottle of fine wine and two crystal glasses
  • Gift card to their favorite restaurant
  • Multiple gift cards to a variety of stores and locations
  • Theater, concert, sporting events or movie tickets
  • Matching robes and massage oils
  • Monogrammed photo album
  • Gift basket filled with gourmet items
  • Set of quality photo frames
  • Engraved items with the couples name's and wedding date
  • Personalized items
  • Matching beach totes and towels
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